Review of Young Widows Club by Alexandra Coutts

ByJen
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Young Widows Club by Alexandra Coutts

Published on November 10, 2015
by Farrar, Straus and Giroux BYR

Plot Summary for Young Widows Club by Alexandra Coutts

For seventeen-year-old Tam, running off to marry her musician boyfriend is the ideal escape from her claustrophobic high-school life on the island, and the ultimate rebellion against her father and stepmother. But when Tam becomes a widow just weeks later, the shell-shocked teen is forced to find her way forward by going back to the life she thought she’d moved beyond—even as her struggle to deal with her grief is forcing her to reinvent herself and reach out to others in ways she never imagined.

Review of Young Widows Club by Alexandra Coutts

I enjoyed Tumble & Fall, Alexandra Coutts’s last book, so I wanted to try Young Widows Club. And I did enjoy this one too, despite the weird (for YA, that is) title and premise.

First, let’s talk about the weirdness, of which there was quite a bit. 

The premise of the book is that seventeen year-old Tamsen marries her nineteen year-old boyfriend, and then he dies. I’ve read a YA book in which the main characters want to get married because one of them is about to be deported. I’ve read dystopian YA in which the characters are forced into a polygamous marriage or just forced into marriage. In fact, in YA dystopians and fairy tales, teens being forced into marriage is a common plot point.

So why did Tamsen and Noah (willingly) get married? The blurb suggests that she was trying to “escape from her claustrophobic life on the island,” but that doesn’t seem accurate to me. You don’t need to be married to say, leave the island to go to college on the mainland. 

And after these teen lovebirds tie the knot, they don’t escape from the island at all. They live in a Tiny House that Noah’s dad built them. A house that’s right next to Noah’s parents’ house. Uh, claustrophobic much?

Why does Tamsen say she got married? As she explains it, “I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with Noah. Why wait?” Uh, because you’re a seventeen year-old who can’t even get married in the state of Massachusetts without parental permission. Because you haven’t finished high school yet.

Next we have the problem of the inaccurate title. While “young widows club” is a very catchy one, there is really no such thing in the book. Yes, Tamsen joins a grief support group that is filled with widows and widowers. Many are relatively young, though Tamsen, that cruel girl, calls them “middle aged”…  Sorry to break it to you, but there is no club of teenaged widows.


But when I managed to get past the gimmicky quality of the title and premise, I really liked this book. It’s a quiet contemporary and I thought it was a moving grief story — maybe one of the best grief stories that I’ve read recently. 

After Noah’s death, Tamsen is confused. She’s angry. She feels lost and alone. Many grief books add drama by having a character die under some sort of questionable circumstances, but Young Widows Club has Noah die in his sleep from some undiagnosed, congenital condition. I thought that was an interesting choice, because it made the book all about the grief.

The book’s whole set-up was beautifully done as well. I think one of the hardest things about grief and loss is that the world just spins along, which feels confusing and wrong. 

In the story, Noah was in a band, and Tamsen has to deal with the fact that the band decides to move on without him, and to continue to use their old songs, many of which were written about Tamsen by Noah. 
There’s a strong family element, as Tamsen’s mother died when she was young and Tamsen’s father remarried and had two more children. I really liked the way Tam’s father had to struggle to come to terms with some of the ways he’d failed her as a parent as a result of his own grief, and how he worked hard to finally be the dad that she needed. 
I also loved the way the book showed that, in a grief situation, sometimes the people you thought you could count on let you down, but then you find support in completely unexpected places.

Okay, there’s a bit more weirdness I didn’t mention before. Let’s just get it over with quickly, like pulling off a band-aid: Tamsen starts to fall for an older (*cough* twenty-six year-old *cough*) guy. 

In a regular YA without married teenagers who want to escape yet don’t and then become widows, this kind of relationship would have been a huge deal breaker for me. But given all the other weirdness, I actually thought it worked. Go figure. It was a slow-moving and somewhat bumpy romance, which helped.

tl;tr: In the end, I really liked this. It’s a very different book that you might expect, given the title. But if you’re looking for a quiet sort of grief book, I suggest you give it a try.

Jen has been blogging about books since 2011. In that time, she has read and reviewed over 1500 books. She loves helping readers find their perfect next read and helping books find their audience.

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  2. Innnteresting. I am a bit disappointed that her support system isn't a bunch of younger women who are grieving as she is grieving.

    There is a lot of weirdness in here for me. Especially the romance. Is she still grieving when this hot 26 year old appears?

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    1. Yes, the weirdness is something I had to get past. I mean, Martha's Vineyard is a small island, so I don't think there could possibly be that many young widows unless some unusual event occurred.

      And yes, she actually meetsthe26yearoldguyinthesupportgroup. Which, I know, sounds even worse. But it kind of worked for me, when I'm usually the first to jump all over relationships between teenagers and twenty-somethings.

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  4. I wouldn't have patience with this one, I'm afraid. The entire premise of "why wait" just pisses me off. That has never been, nor will it ever be a valid reason for anything, least of all this.

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  5. Wow – I have no idea how I would feel about this one! I think I'd have more of a problem with the older guy than the marriage but if it's done well then maybe??

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    1. I guess it kind of worked for me because, being widows and widowers, neither one of them was all starry-eyed about love — it was kind of one of those "I don't want to like you" relationships. And maybe I'm kind of a sucker for those…

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  6. This one went on my TBR as soon as I read the synopsis a while back. It sounded right up my alley. But when I started reading your review I saw you describe it as weird i though, "Oh no. She thought it was weird and horrible." So glad to read on and discover that, despite some weirdness, you enjoyed it. I'm really looking forward to reading this one.

    Tanya @ Girl Plus Books

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  7. Yeah… I was interested and deterred from this book for those reasons. I honestly think it probably could have been done without a 17 year old girl jumping into marriage… it probably would still be a good grief story.
    I have not read this yet, because I was on the fence of it, but I am glad to hear that despite that you still enjoyed the book Jen.

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  8. I'm actually glad there's no Young Widows Club. That would be really odd to read about a bunch of teenage brides and their dead husbands. IDK about the 26 yr old love interest though… that's a little creepy. This is definitely something I want to read and see if I can get into it or not. Great review 🙂

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  10. Good Lord. There's just so many things wrong about this novel. I must admit I was curious at first, but teen marriage because it was an end to a means? That's crazy.

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  12. Great review. I had wondered about this one and it does sound like her reasons for getting married so young are questionable. But I am glad that the rest of the book was handled well.

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